Use Your Emotions Rather than Let Your Emotions Use You

Do your emotions interfere with your parenting? Do they keep you from being the calm, loving parent you want to be? Are emotional outbursts all too common in your home?


This course, based on the books Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman and Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by Dr. John Gottman, is designed for parents to learn how to use their emotions to reach their goals and help their children do the same.


24 Lessons

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Module One

Emotions are NOT Your Enemy

Know your level of emotional intelligence

Assignment 1 Emotional Intelligence Self-Assessment

To establish a baseline to measure your emotional growth

Module Two

Exploring Emotions

Learn about your emotions.

Assignment 2 My Emotions Journal

Identify your emotions, which ones are most frequent and what you can learn from them.

Module Three

Understanding Our Emotions

Identify events and situations that influence your emotions.

Assignment 3 Questions to Ask Myself

Answer specific questions to gain a deeper understanding of your emotions

Module Four

What causes our emotions?

Explain where our emotions originate

Assignment 4 What are my triggers?

Identify events and situations that initiate a knee-jerk reaction

Module Five

Emotional Hijacking

Understand what happens when we have a knee-jerk reaction

Assignment 5 Lessons from an Emotional Hijacking

Determine a plan to avoid future emotional hijackings

Module Six

Taking Out the Trash

Learn to release negative emotions

Assignment 6 Five minute Free Write

Release negative emotions

Module Seven

Motivation

Use the energy of your emotions to motivate yourself

Assignment 7 My Affirmations

Write and use affirmations to motivate yourself.

Module Eight

SMART Goals

Learn how to write effective goals

Assignment 8 My SMART Goals

Write goals using the SMART acronym

Module Nine

Active Listening

Learn the components of active listening

Assignment 9 Active Listening

Practice your active listening skills

Module Ten

Empathy

Learn the components of empathy.

Assignment 10 Empathy Practice

Practice using the tools of empathy

Module Eleven

Applied Emotional Intelligence

Learn how to resolve conflict without contention

Assignment 11 Resolve Conflict with Respect

Apply the steps of resolving conflict with respect

Module Twelve

Emotion Coaching

Learn the steps of emotion coaching

Assignment 12 Emotion Coaching

Assess your progress in using the steps of emotion coaching